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How to Live an Incredible Life: 16 Faith-Driven Keys

Simply put, being incredible begins with a realisation many people never reach: you were born that way.

Yet life has a way of beating us down. Disappointments pile up. Voices from the past grow louder. Somewhere along the way, we stop walking into our birthright and start settling for less.

Sound familiar? 

If you are wondering how to livean incredible life, the truth may surprise you. The only thing standing between you and the Incredible You… is you.

The Mindset Behind an Incredible Life

Living an incredible life has nothing to do with what others think of you. It is not about applause, approval, or external success.

Being incredible is about self-esteem, self-worth, and self-love.

At some point in life, many of us are compelled to confront questions of identity and belonging, questions that extend far beyond titles, achievements, or even legal status. I explored this tension between identity and acceptance in my lived reflection on the deeper question of belonging beyond labels and status.

Your mindset is the key. It unlocks passion, abundance, confidence, and expectation. When your thinking changes, your life follows. Get excited, you are only one decision away from stepping into a PACE life.

Do you believe you already possess the keys to an incredible life?
I believe you do.

My Story: Brokenness Before Breakthrough

When I was twenty-five, the bottom fell out of my life.

I felt like I had lost everything, not because everything was taken from me, but because I allowed a man to define my worth. When that relationship collapsed, my sense of identity collapsed with it.

As the dust settled and I began picking up the pieces of my shattered existence, I realised something profound:
I already possessed everything I needed to change my life.

I was the master of my mind.

Mediocrity was removed from my vocabulary. Pain no longer had permission to dictate my future. That season later became the foundation of my book If You Understood My Past, You Would Understand My Praise.

This transformation was not overnight. It was shaped by years of struggle, learning, and growthMy journey from uncertainty to purpose continues to inform how I serve others today.

What Changed Everything

The shift did not come from something complex.

It came from something simple.

I started believing in myself.

I developed a personal relationship with the Lord. I gave myself permission to be my best, to march to the beat of my own drum, and to forgive myself for the wrongs done to me and the wrongs I committed out of anger, pain, or discontentment.

Faith also taught me the power of presence. Learning how to be fully present reshaped how I approached worship, attention, and daily life,  a lesson I later reflected on while learning presence and focus through faith.

I stopped chasing what others wanted for me.
I started dreaming again.

My passion was born out of brokenness. And that brokenness gave birth to purpose.

The 16 Keys to Living an Incredible Life

As I underwent this transformation, I discovered self-determined keys that unlocked an incredible life. These principles are simple, yet deeply powerful, rooted in faith, gratitude, vision, and obedience.

These keys will help you unleash the Incredible You, filled with passion, abundance, confidence, and expectation:

  1. Trust that God has your best interest at heart.
  2. Cultivate a heart that is ready to serve others.
  3. Experience life through the eyes of faith.
  4. Practise gratitude;  an attitude of gratitude fills your cup.
  5. Never give up on yourself, no matter what others may say.
  6. Create a life of balance and a healthy perspective.
  7. Release yourself from the hurts and struggles of your past.
  8. Expect God’s unmerited favour in your life.
  9. Decide that vision is your key to victory.
  10. Strengthen your self-image — you are who you say you are.
  11. Be who you were created to be, unapologetically.
  12. Live a life that is pleasing to God.
  13. Execute your goals with enthusiastic expectation.
  14. Believe that you already possess the keys to incredible success.
  15. Face obstacles and adversity with passion and promise.
  16. Unleash God’s promises for an incredible life.

These are not theories.
They are lived truths.

Attention, Mindset, and the Modern Distraction

Renewing the mind also requires honesty about what quietly steals our focus. Many people struggle to move forward, not because of a lack of faith, but because of fractured attention.

Breaking unhealthy patterns, especially breaking unhealthy digital habits, is often a necessary step in reclaiming clarity, peace, and direction.

An incredible life demands intentional living.

Your Incredible Life Starts Here

Living an incredible life is not reserved for a chosen few. It is available to anyone willing to believe, forgive, grow, and trust.

If you are ready to take the next step, my work in faith-led mindset coaching and clarity work is designed to help you move forward with alignment and confidence.

Many people also benefit from structured life coaching frameworks that help translate belief into consistent, practical action.

You can do it.

And if you need guidance along the way

I can help.

Be Incredible.